They might include feelings of fear, anger, shame, helplessness, disgust, regret, etc.

Say something like this, “Jesus, I give you my feelings of embarrassment and humiliation when my mom called me a loser in from of my friends. If you allow me into your heart, I can comfort you and take away your pain. But even better than that, Jesus can heal your pain. He took them upon Himself when He went to the cross. Maybe you’ve cried out to Jesus to take your pain away before and nothing happened. This is the great part of the story. If you are suffering, please allow me to love and heal you. Ask Him to fill you with His life and blessings.

Local: 704-401-2432 They are beautiful and truthful. Friendships and relationships should be giving and filled with love.

He had to lay down His life as a sacrifice, because “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness” (Hebrews 9:22). Be as specific as possible as you forgive each person involved. We are constantly changing as individuals and hopefully growing, to reach our full potential ... As I sit with Our Lord, HE wishes to comfort all those hearts who have been hurt. What to remember when God doesn’t take away your pain: This pain is not God’s fault. In your letter, you mentioned that you are married, and although your wife can’t take away your pain, her presence has been a source of great comfort and encouragement to you. Maybe no one around you understands the pain you are experiencing, but Jesus does. Don’t give out generic forgiveness like, “I forgive my dad.”, The person who hurt you did so through specific acts. No, it isn’t wrong for you to ask God to bring healing to your body and take away your pain. I forgive you for embarrassing me. Continue to love and give. “. He is lying in a tiny casket. It is not ignoring, forgetting, or excusing what took place. . ALWAYS THANK GOD...FOR EVERYTHING WE HAVE. Jesus bore your pain on the cross. Anne Graham Lotz: Is COVID-19 a Sign of the End? If you feel taken advantage of, you can decide to discuss it with that person or quietly learn from it and move on. Sally Webster Take Some Chances ℗ 2011 Sally Webster Released on: 2011-01-06 Auto-generated by YouTube. The doctor did all he could do but his lungs collapsed and he died. But there is one who does know you pain.

For if you hold onto bitterness and anger, it will eat away at your soul. If after trying to love and you still are hurting, then walk away. We do not always know which direction to go in or where to turn. Forgiveness is releasing a person from all your feelings of anger, hatred, and revenge and trusting God to deal with that person. Jesus knows your pain. Then trust the Lord to deal with that person. Will Graham Q&A: What Good Can Possibly Come from COVID-19? In a similar way, knowing that God cares for you and is constantly with you will bring you great comfort and encouragement. A library of resources that focus on the practical aspects of healing and deliverance. When bad things happen to us we should expect to experience pain, but pain is only meant to be temporary.

Struggling with Pain from the Past?

He knows exactly what you are going through. Simply put... Jesus teaches us about words and actions...please read HIS loving advice to us in a letter. If you are heartbroken from a loss, please know your loved one has moved on in my arms to a loving place that I have prepared.

It somehow feels wrong. Love and respect go hand in hand. What are you feeling? Will you walk through the steps below trusting that Jesus will meet you and heal you? The Bible says, “Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous fall” (Psalm 55:22). Or will you take your pain to Jesus and willingly give Him each feeling and emotion? By Billy Graham   •   “My wife is seven months pregnant and her water breaks. His intention was to live with us in unity and peace. Nobody is perfect and sometimes innocent people get hurt and sometimes innocent people do … He created a sinless and perfect world. Our hearts become hardened and weep.

I will use all of the universe to help and heal you, so that you may move forward in your life. Jesus came to bear our emotional pain and distress. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted . Examine what you are feeling and write down each feeling on your piece of paper. Instead, I pray that your pain will cause you to turn toward God and draw closer to Him, so you can discover His strength and presence. Invite Him to restore your soul. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. What is taking place? You can bring your pain to Jesus. Be thorough.

Unresolved emotional pain has been known to cause physical illnesses, relationship problems, and personal inner struggles.

Be specific and press in until you feel it is gone. “I forgive you mom for calling me a loser in front of my friends. I am asking you to bring your pain to Jesus, give it to Him, and ask Him to heal your wounds. But sometimes, others hurt us and we fall into despair. It’s when pain is allowed to linger that trouble begins. Go somewhere you can have privacy. They rush her to the hospital and she gives birth to Zachariah Lee, we call him Zach.”, “I couldn’t be there for Zach’s birth because I was in Basic Training for the Air Force in Texas. No soul that is devoted to me or my Father will ever be left unaided or loved. As St. Padr... Life is not perfect, far from it. Copyright 2020 Experiencing His Victory, all rights reserved. JESUS WILL DO ANYTHING FOR YOU...JUST ASK, Simple, but eloquent words. Be thorough. Terry Tuinder is the founder of Experiencing His Victory. Remember the situation. You might be struggling with the thought of forgiving the person who hurt you. Who in this memory hurt you? We already mentioned that emotions are okay and that God gave them to us. But He was pierced through for our transgressions.

I walk up and look at him. Will Graham: A Story on Social Distancing from the Old Testament. Nobody is perfect and sometimes innocent people get hurt and sometimes innocent people do the hurting. That does not mean that you need to sacrifice yourself by allowing others to continually hurt you. In order for us to be saved, Jesus had to take our place and die for sin. The login page will open in a new tab. “No, I don’t know exactly what you are feeling,” I say, “but my wife and I lost our first son.” The hardness of his eyes softens and he tilts forward open to receive my story. Contact Information, please email Author at, "LET ME TAKE AWAY YOUR PAIN"...SAYS JESUS, "SUFFERING ON EARTH, LET ME HELP YOU"...BY JESUS CHRIST, "THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WORDS AND ACTIONS"...BY JESUS CHRIST. All that you give, will be returned to you. He knows you at a level that no one else in the world can know or understand. He is lying there so peacefully.

. If there is still things that rise up, bring it to the Lord until nothing remains but His peace. Set aside a block of time.

Ask Him to take it and bear it for you. Ask the Lord to heal every area of your heart that was affected by this situation. I so much wish the world to hear HIS voice. A: No, it isn’t wrong for you to ask God to bring healing to your body and take away your pain. Your soul should be a place for love and that is all that should reside there.   •   Topics: Suffering. Prepare. Both the word griefs and sorrows (note they are plural) carry the idea of physical and emotional sickness or anguish. He knows your thoughts and feelings. Chronic pain is a terrible burden, and the Bible encourages us to bring all our burdens to God in prayer. Insights into the invisible barriers that are standing in the way of your spiritual growth? I say gently to the couple, “I can somewhat understand what you are going through.”, The words are barely out of my mouth and the father’s head snaps up. In spite of your present feelings about Him, God has not abandoned you; He loves you and wants to encourage you. Forgiveness is a choice you to make release that person and let them go. At mail call that day my Training Instructor made the announcement that Airman Tuinder is the father of a new baby boy. There should be an end to the pain. You cannot love without respect. . Or I forgive you for always being so negative and critical of me.”. You don’t have to remain in pain. Here are a few of the things He experienced: All of these things show how Jesus can relate to your pain. As I sit with Our Lord, HE wishes to comfort all those hearts who have been hurt. He understands exactly what you are going through to the slightest detail. So go ahead, speak out your forgiveness. ” (Isaiah 61:1), “He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds.” (Psalm 147:3), “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:18). I am sitting with Dennis and Gayle, a very distraught young couple, who just lost their newborn baby. I am asking you to do something else.

©2020 BGEA He knows you. He could not believe that his baby boy just died. I run to her, grab her into my arms, and we weep together. Chronic pain is a terrible burden, and the Bible encourages us to bring all our burdens to God in prayer. Are you willing to bring your pain to Jesus?

So often you may feel that no one understands your pain. You are not created by God to bear long-term emotional pain.

Be sure to have a pencil and paper handy. Set aside some time and go through the following steps with every painful situation that plagues you. October 16, 2012 I was shocked and so happy I could hardly stand it.”, “The next day another Instructor called me into the office and told me that my son was dead and that he was there to help go through the paperwork to go home on emergency leave. Our spirit becomes crushed by the pain and we feel helpless and hopeless. Do you want to continue to try and deal with your pain in the ways discussed above? A community of believers who are longing for all that God has available and are pursuing Him with a passion? (Isaiah 53:4-5).

If a friendship is causing you pain, look at the situation and honestly exam both your roles. It really comes down to a decision that only you can make.

“After what seems like a million years I arrive home. The father is sobbing and shaking his head back and forth. Forgive them for those acts. My heart is broken. Jesus knows your pain. Walking away from a bad situation will free you up for an opportunity to receive love and respect.

Set aside some time and go through the following steps with every painful situation that plagues you.

You tell your story and people glibly say, “Just get over it,” or “You need to forgive and forget.” But the pain is real and as we have already learned ignoring it doesn’t make it go away. It is not dependent on them feeling sorry or asking for forgiveness. BGEA is a registered 501(c)(3) non-profit organization.

Forgiveness is not letting someone off the hook, or treating what they did to you lightly. Set aside a block of time. It is a step of faith and obedience to the Lord recognizing that He will ultimately bring justice.